You’re not broken. You’re just disconnected. 

Disconnected from your body. From desire. From safety, clarity, or intimacy - maybe even from your own voice.
 
I support people who are navigating those quiet but painful spaces:
 
• The shutdown in a relationship that once felt alive
• The confusion of low libido, performance anxiety, or pain
• The exhaustion of trying to “fix” yourself when what you really needed was space, support, and safety to reconnect 

I’m Sam Ebblewhite - a Somatic Sexologist, Kinesiologist, and Relationship Coach. 

My work is all about reconnection.

Reconnection to your body, your boundaries, your pleasure, your self-expression, and your ability to experience intimacy in a way that feels real and supported.

What I do...

I help individuals and couples rebuild trust, restore emotional and physical intimacy, and reconnect with their bodies through trauma-aware, somatic, and relational support.

 This isn’t surface-level work.
I don’t offer scripts, formulas, or quick fixes.  
What I offer is a grounded, embodied process that supports real change - guided by your lived experience and your own nervous system pace.  

My work blends:
• Somatic education and emotional coaching
• Kinesiology and body-based awareness
• Reflective practices, nervous system tools, and movement-based support
• Frameworks that honour both the masculine and feminine within us

Whether you’re navigating disconnection, relationship tension, sexual frustration, shame, or internal shutdown, I support you to reconnect with what matters most - without pressure or performance.

My Approach:  Structured - Somatic - Soulful

I don’t believe in fixing people. 
I believe in creating safe, grounded spaces where people can reconnect with themselves - at their pace, in their language, and on their terms. 
You can expect: 
• Practical tools to help you regulate, reflect, and reconnect 
• A pace that respects your nervous system 
• A non-judgmental space that values honesty over perfection 
• A coach who brings intuition, training, structure, and deep care 

This work integrates science and somatics, masculine and feminine, logic and emotion - without fluff, shame, or performance. 

My Story...
"You teach best what you've had to live"

My path here wasn’t a straight line.

 It came from lived experience - wanting to feel at ease in my body, reclaim desire without pressure, and build relationships that feel emotionally honest and deeply connected.

I trained in kinesiology, somatic sexology, and emotional coaching not just as a profession, but as part of my own integration.

This work has changed how I relate to myself and others - and now I support others in doing the same.

 It’s not about being perfect, fixed, or spiritual enough.
It’s about feeling safe, supported, and seen.
It’s about reconnecting with what’s already inside you.

This work isn’t just what I do.
It’s who I am.

And it would be an honour to support your journey.

If something in you resonates with these words - trust that. 

Start with a Connection Call - a space to explore where you are and what kind of support will serve you best.
 Alternatively, you can join my Signature 12-Week Relationship with Self program, explore other pathways, or work together 1:1.
Whatever path you choose, I’ll meet you with honesty, warmth, and precision.

Testimonials

"Working with Sam has been nothing short of life-changing. She helped me uncover beliefs and blocks that held me back in my relationship and overcome my anxieties around body confidence. I highly recommend Sam and her incredible work!"

Steph

"Thank you, Sam, for an amazing session. When I came to Sam, I felt really low and tired. Following the session, the sound healing and kinesiology brought clarity and calm to my nervous system, leaving me super energized. Highly recommend."

Larissa

"Sam is the kind of person you instantly feel safe and secure with. Her passion for her work radiates through her, and you know you are in good hands. After a session with Sam, I felt calm and had a clear sense of how to move forward. This led to a huge shift in my relationship with my parents, which was an incredible relief. I highly recommend Sam to anyone needing balance, a new perspective, or help clearing old trauma."

Catherine